Day Game is the real game. Focus on

 - ( great, this is going to be a fun chat with a new person like with your best friend) You 2 have fun while learning by sharing fun, positive experiences form your pasts/ shared now in the present.  I like to think sex (the most fun, positive experience) begins when she speaks; you simply keep the interaction (talking) going.  This is accomplished by fun, active listening. Practice. I say" hi. Is there a Starbucks or McDonalds around here?" She says something. Wait a few seconds. You say a statement about what she just said. Wait a few seconds. Then, say something funny about what she did (nose wiggles)or said. Wait to see if she is going to say anything else. Then make an additional statement or to if she says nothing; ask a question.      The pauses give you both time to think- your words to penetrate her mind and time to think of something else to say/ ask as well as, observe her body language.  By this time you can
go - emotional, instant date, reward with high five, or sexual, Get the contact info and meet your waiting friends.  She will agree = (sexually available) or disagree (in a relationship)/ wrongly believes your social value is not high enough to be around her family and friends or still to damaged from the last one to get into one now.