It means you don't FORCE the interaction, not what the pua gurus teach... The woman has to choose you AFTER you have chosen her. She is concerned up front about if you will force her to do anything physically when and if she decides to be alone with you. A woman must be in an extremely relaxed state in order to have a great sexual experience. Your part is to - move the interaction along to let the woman know you would like to be physical with her if she wants to be; wither she wants to or not is the "confusion" you display that makes the difference. Many women have had bad, violent sexual experiences and need alcohol to get into a "relaxed state". Keep in mind, "you are the prize because you really are."
