How to Listen to a Woman

Listening is a sign of your respect for her that rocks her world. Women soften their emotions when speaking. The way to decode it is to - dial everything up  times 10 your guess Understanding of what women say and multiple their facial expressions and body language. Women invent passive - aggressive behavior at birth.   

Getting Your Mentality Right to understand a woman

* It doesn't matter: what you have believed in the past, what you think you believe now, what you may think what others think of you. You are not your thoughts. Also, don't in your mind put hot women on pedestals. This is all much easier said that done to most of us, but it's true.
* Make solid, sustained, but playful eye contact with women in bars, on the street, etc. Few people do this -- even folks who have been in " the game " for a while. Do it, but keep it between you and your girl. No one else matters. Your eye contact should basically convey that you know that you will rock her sexually.
* When you do have sex with her, have her your way. Just screw her brains out. You should ensure she's having a good time, but you having an amazing, primal way with her is much more important.
 The principles are solid and basic.  I do believe that the principle of solid, confident eye contact is the key to building initial sexual attraction. There are heaps of details that go along with this in various situations, but eye contact is a universal language. You can go out and start practicing this now.

Seven Ways To Create An Emotional Attraction

 Many unsuspecting people are exposed to communication and seduction techniques that are clearly structured in the exact same way hypnotists use to put people to "sleep."
Too often when people speak to one another, all they're doing is downloading information onto each other. It is easy to talk to someone for hours and hours without entering into a genuine relationship with him or her. Worse, they're often doing it as "just the facts, Sir" - feeling pressured to find out what "we have in common before we waste more time". This tendency to simply exchange facts stops conversation rather than keeps it going.
A conversation is more than an information exchange; to converse, you have to make a conscious effort to connect human-to-human, individual to individual, man to woman. If you're looking for something deeper and more involved, these suggestions will improve you ability to really connect with the opposite sex:
1. Avoid offering solutions (including giving advice or sympathy) - When people open up to share their true emotions and desires they are not doing it because they want to be told what to do about a problem. Sometimes, it's best to just ask more questions, using their own experience and let them talk. Sometimes all people want is to be heard.
2. Acknowledge the other person's feelings, experience or comment before sharing a similar experience or making a contribution of your own. It's reassuring to the other person and creates a sense of solidarity or closeness.
3. Be involved, animated and excited - Avoid wearing one single look and using one monotonous voice to bore the other person into tears, all in the name of conversation. To be interesting and unpredictable, use facial expressions to create moods, vary your voice to create different characters etc.
4. Use suggestive spaces - Don't talk too much and at greater length leaving the other person feeling that he or she did not have the opportunity to speak. If you say something, it must be a prod for the other person to join in. The best use of suggestive spaces is in "call-and -response" conversation where you use humour, puzzles and phrases that draw in the other person to participate.
5. Tell stories that are deeply meaningful to you - Most people try to tell stories that are supposedly funny just to entertain the other person; this is good but not enough. Stories that are from your heart (funny or not) are more likely to create a heart-to-heart-connection. When you tell your story make it in the present tense. The present tense puts the listener inside the story. It implies that the story does not belong to you alone, but to you and the person listening--you are experiencing it together.
6. Engage in witty repartee - Use the surprise element or "shock" effect to create pleasurable anticipation (not uneasiness); use his or her own words or phrases, twist and turn them around, and pretend to misinterpret and misconstrue what he or she is saying - but make sure he or she knows you are just being playful and not hurtful.
7. Accept disruptions and encourage disagreement - Take more interest in understanding where he or she is coming from rather than trying to achieve agreement or to change his or her mind . People feel closer to you when they feel listened to and treated well.
By simply changing how you engage in conversation, you can dramatically change the chemistry. If you are looking for more ways to seduce a man or woman using conversation, visit my websites for intriguing and unconventional ways of seducing and creating deep and lasting attraction.

Erotic Mind Notes True Push Pull Motivator AntiM

How old were you when you first remember having any sexual fantasies or thoughts? What do you recall about them?   Motivational Map  Goals; to be attracted to someone available for a relationship  - to only love someone who loves me in return   - to develop other turn-ons besides longing   - Push Motivators  (why i need to change)  Pull Motivators (potential benefits and rewards) AntiMotivators  ( fears/resistance to change)                                                                                                                             Examples PushM - feeling rejected fear of loneliness  depressed worthless unlovable  waiting.                                                                                                                                                                                                                             PullM  - joy of intimacy/connection/ commitment  - relaxing, no chasing/ worrying - have fun when i want to - sharing special events - one day getting married and having a family                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   &n bsp;              AntiM- belief someone I desire would want me - fear of no passion w/o longing - fear attractive women won't be attracted to me - afraid i'll be hurting my parents if i find Love

The Purpose of Conversation is to

   provide opportunity for men and women to use non - verbal elements and generate attraction.  Stop being your own enemy.

Online Dating Notes for men

Move fast to meeting in person!    books - show her herself,  My lover, myself.   Don't do what other guys (profiles) are doing! Set up a profile as a woman. Run test different profiles. If you don't click - drop her. Always Lead! Get attention from close near by women. Chat rooms / Forum interest groups online dating forum - reviews Update your profile daily. No neediness search scribd.com - Neediness Management. You are what you do. Have unreasonably high standards - accuse them of lying in their profile / married to several men cocky/ funny  Discuss boundaries - avoidance of crazy chicks / fact that's attractive - women can be flaky  Charming / have a normal phone conversation  exaggerate everything / no boring or predictable = this equal Not Good.  "type faster!" / Extreme Negative opposites. Build Sexual Tension! 

Syn Estesia Emotional Anestisia Color and Feeling

May be you can try to remember the last time you felt happiness or pleasure. As you feel it now, where in your body are those feelings? And how good does it feel on a scale of one to ten? Now, as you focus on this feeling right here, you can begin to see a color flowing from that feeling, what is the color? Good, now, what it would be like if you were to allow all out of that "xx" color to fill with warmth and brightness. As you breath in allow the color to increase in size and intensity inside that spot. Now, how do you feel on a scale one to ten? Reduce that color to a tiny pea that contains all the power and intensity of that feeling. Put it on my hand. Now, feel how my hand becomes like a paint brush transferring the color to your hand, your wrist, and the surface of your face."