Meet Women Period

Thursday, October 13, 2016

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Hi. How’s your day been?
She – a bit surprised: Oh hi. :) It’s been fine. How was yours?
You: Stressful. I have so much to do because of that exam I have next week. I have to read two more books and they’re not an easy read.
She: Sounds tough!
You: It is. Btw I’m John! Nice to meet you!
She: Emily, nice to meet you too!
You: So.. What do you do?
She: I’m a teacher!
You: Really! At which school?
And the conversation is on! You just broke the ice and can now get to know her better!
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It’s always a good idea to do an activity that doesn’t require much attention parallel to having a conversation. Something like billiard, darts, bowling, cooking, sports, taking a walk,… It takes the pressure away and makes everything flow smoother and more natural.
A little tip on the side:
In case you are a good pool billard player, let her win but don’t make it too obvious.

Overcome Approach Anxiety Step By Step

One of the most common mistakes I observe over and over is good guys who turn crazy as soon as they talk to an attractive woman. Counterintuitively, the path to solving this problem is by starting conversations with everyone but women you are attracted to.
Start step by step:
Step #1:
You can begin by starting conversations with friends of friends, people you don’t fear talking to. Don’t move on to the next step until you feel 100% comfortable with this step.
Step #2:
Chat with strangers whose job is talking to customers e.g: bartenders, waitresses, salespeople etc. These folks won’t reject you! It’s more or less their job to be nice to you and to give you a good feeling.
Step #3:
After that talk to random people you are not attracted to whenever an opportunity arises.
Step #4:
And finally: Talk to women you are attracted to. Hot women are humans too. Don’t act differently around them. They want to get to know you with all your good and bad qualities and not an actor who constantly tries to trick them into bed!
Your order of progression with these steps could be different. Always take one step and practice it until you feel comfortable, then increase the difficulty slowly.

Some Personal Tips That Have Served Me Well

People LOVE talking about themselves. Ask open ended questions during conversations. Those are questions that force people to answer you with more than one or two words. Most of these questions start with “how” or “what”.
Examples: “What is it like to live in Denmark?”, “How do you envision your life after college?”, “Is there something that you’ve dreamt of doing for a long time?” Also, check out these open-ended questions.
Earn the other person’s trust by showing vulnerability. Allow them to see your weaknesses and never play too cool for school! If the other person trusts you he/she will open up and be much more perceptive.
Don’t hide what you’re thinking and express your opinion clearly. Nothing is more boring than a person who tries to be liked by everyone.

In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different.
-Coco Chanel
Consider that it’s ok not to get along with everyone. That’s a good thing because it helps filter out people who aren’t compatible with your vision of life.
Practice listening. Most people think about what to say next while the other person is still talking. Never ever do that! It just distracts you, makes you come across as a bad listener and lets you run out of words!

Dating open ended questions

Career / Job

What do you do for a living?
How does someone get into that job?
What’s the most challenging part about your job?
What do you love most about your job?
If you could start over again, would you choose the same career?
How would you describe your job to a 6-year-old?

Childhood

What was your childhood like?
What is your favorite memory from your childhood?
Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people's?
As a child, what were you most afraid of?
Which wallpaper hung on your wall when you were a child?
What was your favorite piece of clothing you owed as a child?
What would change about the way you were raised?
What is the weirdest thing you believed in as a child?
What were your best friends like when you were a child?

Family

How close are you with your family?
What is your relationship with your family like?
When was the last time you argued with your parents and why?
What do your parents do for a living?
What were your favorite family vacations?
What do you admire most about your parents?

Feelings

What is your biggest fear?
What fear would you like to overcome?
What’s the one thing that drives you crazy?

Food

What is the weirdest thing you have ever eaten?
What are your favorite midnight snacks?
What is your favorite food and why?
What kind of food do you hate most?
What food did you like as a child that grosses you out now?

Friends

What do you and your friends do for fun?
How did you meet your best friend?
Have you ever been in love with your best friend?
How has your circle of friends changed over the course of your life?
What qualities do you value most in a friend?
What do you think is the best way to make friends?

Future plans

What do you want to be doing in five years?
How do you envision your life after college?

Life Experiences

What was the worst purchase you’ve ever made?
What was the hardest thing you have ever done?
What’s one mistake you keep repeating?
Have you ever started writing a book? What happened?
Which recent news story stuck with you the most?

Memories

What is your most terrible memory?
What was the best birthday gift you’ve ever had?
As a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
What was the best birthday you ever had?
What was the best party you have been to?

Opinions

Why do you think there are so many religions in the world?
What is your opinion about (recent news story)?
What do you hate most about first dates?
What do you like most about your country?
What do you think about [enter topic]?

Passions

Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? * Why haven't you done it?
What are your passions in life?
What motivates you the most in life? What makes you feel discouraged or disengaged?
What is your biggest goal in life?
If you had to choose one activity that you had to do every single day for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Personal

Do you have any scars? How did you get them?
What is the first thing you remember after your birth?
What has caused you the most emotional pain in your life?
Have you ever believed in God? Do you still believe?/Why did you stop?
What do you do when you can't fall asleep?
What makes you relax?
What do you value most in a friendship?
What does friendship mean to you?
What are you most proud of?
What do you like about yourself / hate about yourself?
What do you like to do when you want to relax?
What’s your favorite way to waste time?
What was the highlight of your week?
When do you feel most alone?
What are some strange believes that you have?
Have you ever won an award? What was it for?
What’s the strangest dream you've ever had?
What role does money play in your life?
For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Preferences

What is your favorite movie?
What is your favorite piece of jewellery you own?
What is your favorite type of clothing?
What are you doing with pleasure, that others don't enjoy at all?
Would you like to be famous? In what way?

Self-improvement

Who is your role model/mentor?
What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
What is the one thing that made you improve the most on a personal level?
What was the toughest period in your life?
What do you do to improve your mood when you are in a bad mood?
If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
What does a perfect day look like for you?
Do you have a morning ritual? What is it?
What is the best piece of advice you've received?
If you could sit down with your 15-year old self, what would you tell him or her?
What was your New Year’s resolution this year? Did you break it? * How long did it take you to break it?

Sexual

What turns you on most?
What is your favorite sex position?
What was the craziest sex dream you’ve had?
What do you think about SM?
What would you like to try sexually, that you haven’t tried yet?
What is an experience that the opposite sex can have and you can’t, but that you would like to make?

Stories & Secrets

Do you have a secret nobody knows about? Tell me about it.
When was the last time you peed in your pants?
When did you last cry in front of another person?
What is the closest you ever gotten to being famous?
What’s your funniest “drunk” story?
What was the most embarrassing moment in your life so far?
What's the craziest thing you've ever done?
Have you ever experienced something paranormal?
What is your craziest dating story?
What was the weirdest sexual experience you ever had?
What type of porn do you watch the most?
Which book are you ashamed to admit you love?

Thought Experiments

If you ruled the world, what would you change?
If you could go back or forth in time but never come back, what would you do?
If you had $10 million in the bank, what would you be doing differently?
If someone could tell you the truth about the future, what would you want to know?
Given the choice of anyone in the world, alive or dead whom would you want to have a meaningful conversation with?
If you knew that in one year you died suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are living now?
If tomorrow was your last day, how would you spend it?
If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?
If you could choose a superpower, what would it be and why?
What would you choose to eat if you had to eat it every day for the rest of your life?
If you could master any instrument, what would it be?
What would you do if you only had 7 days left to live?
If you could have any animal as a pet, what animal would you choose?
What three things would you bring to a deserted island?

Travel

What are the most interesting things to see in your country?
When and where was your best vacation?
Which country would you like to live in?
What is the farthest county you have ever been in?
What is the most exotic place you have visited?

You can download the questions as PDF document here.

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Monday, January 25, 2016

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Sunday, December 20, 2015

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Friday, December 4, 2015

Meeting women online DATING the internet isn’t hard. But

If you want to get a QUALITY woman, someone who’s mentally stable, attractive, and most of all – fun – then here are some tips you need to know about how to meet women on the internet.

TIP 1: Be Extremely Specific About The Type Of Woman You Want To Meet.

Very few guys ever write in their profile what it is they are really looking for.

Be Honest and Open

Here’s the thing though – if you are extremely clear and specific about the type of girl you’re looking to meet, it will actually GET those types of women to respond to you!

And contrary to popular believe, it won’t scare off too many girls who don’t fit the profile of the woman you want either. Most women respect a guy who knows what he’s looking for, and they’ll contact you anyway hoping they can “broaden your horizons.”

It’s a very powerful thing to be specific with what you’re looking for in a girl. Don’t be afraid to go into detail about how you want your girl to look and act.

TIP 2: Explain What You’re NOT Looking For.

Telling people in your profile what you’re not looking for can be just as effective – if not more so – than telling people what you are looking for.

For instance, saying something like: “I am NOT into girls who like to be smacked around, so if you’re into abusive guys, please, do not contact me.”

In this instance, you’re actually using what you’re not looking for to communicate to girls reading your profile that you’re not someone who’s abusive, and this implies you respect women and would never hurt them.

But you’re phrasing it in such a way where you’re putting the girl in a position where she has to prove to YOU that she’s worthy of your time, and not the other way around.

This is a very powerful tactic.

TIP 3: Don’t Include A Picture In Your Profile.

Profiles with pictures get a lot more searches than profiles without pictures, but I’ve found that if you’re the one contacting women (and let’s face it, very few women send out emails on these sites), it doesn’t matter if you don’t have a picture up.

In fact, it works out better. Just say in your profile “I’m worried about some crazy girl on this site cyber-stalking me, so I’m not putting up a picture. But if you email me, I’ll send one to you. Promise.” That will be good enough for a response from a girl.

The key here is to let their imagination fill in the gaps of what you look like, and have the words in your profile be what attracts them to you as opposed to your picture.

This is a great technique for guys who maybe aren’t all that attractive, or are insecure about their looks.

TIP 4: Sign Up For Multiple Dating Sites

Just like you wouldn’t just hang out in one bar or club to meet girls, you don’t want to hang out on just one website to meet girls either. It’s always best to belong to multiple dating websites if you can, because it increases the number of women you can meet!

Here are some of the sites I like to use to meet women on the internet

MySpace
Match.com
eHarmony
Plenty Of Fish
OKCupid.com

Some of these sites are free, some you have to pay for, but all of them will get you results!

So don’t just limit yourself to one dating site. Go for two or three if you can.

TIP 5: Write Funny Emails

Humor is the most attractive thing you can do online. Writing emails that aren’t the same old “hey, what’s up?” or boring emails like “I noticed you liked blah, blah, blah in your profile, I like blah, blah, blah too,” are very powerful.

And the easiest way to do that is to write emails that are funny.

Sending an email that says something like: “Hey, just wondering how many guys with half-naked pictures of themselves have contacted you today. I’m taking a survey. (Don’t ask.)” can get a girl to respond to you instantly.

TIP 6: Get The Girls On The Phone Quickly

Don’t spend too much time emailing back and forth. People are very different over email than they are on the phone. By the third email, you should be asking for her number.

Once you have the number, call her up and talk to her. This is where you’ll find out if there’s some chemistry there, and if there is, you can go ahead and set up a time to meet.

The biggest mistake guys make is they wait too long to talk to a girl on the phone. Don’t let this happen to you! Understand that she’s probably getting contacted by lots of other guys, so if she’s a winner, you don’t want to lose her to someone else.

Work fast, and you’ll see some good results.

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